We all have a natural radar within our being that tells us when something is right or wrong. What we aren’t taught is that our right and wrong is unique and personal. While we gravitate towards people that are similar and will share similar views and opinions influenced by age, geography, and many other things, our experience is meant to be one of a kind. At the root of all understanding, one simple truth exists…there is no truth. We are here to do nothing more than experience life and that is everything. Our entire purpose is be 100% our authentic selves…one that has never been or ever will be again. Every time we veer off the path of who we are, we lose a piece of ourselves, like breadcrumbs on an unknown road. It takes time and effort to backtrack and reclaim those pieces of ourselves.
When you begin looking within, you realize no matter how similar we are to someone else, there are always differences, if nothing more than the space and time we came into the world. If there is even a one percent difference, then we must accept there are no absolutes. If there are no absolutes we can’t hold anyone accountable to our own understanding and truth. Therefore the radar that governs our instincts and decision making can not be applied to other people in the same way.
What we can do is share our understanding with those who we co-create so that they may remember truth in our words or are reminded of their own truth they have within. Either way, we are holding space for each other to be our authentic selves. We are giving permission to others and ourselves to honor the expression we have come here to be. We are remembering that we are meant to celebrate our differences because they are what make life interesting and new. If every station played the same song, what would be the point? If you are gifted the light of life and spend every moment of your precious time repeating and imitating what other people have already done, what did you contribute to the masterpiece of life? Make your mark. Shine your light. Contribute your unique shade of crayon amongst a box of unlimited colors. BeYouToFul!